Hey, Do any of you out there feel discouraged when you type a bunch of emails and get no responses? Is this typical for guys on here or am I just that ugly?
Hey, Do any of you out there feel discouraged when you type a bunch of emails and get no responses? Is this typical for guys on here or am I just that ugly?
ayersch write: WAIT A MINUTE..HOLD THE PHONES..IS IT JUST ME, OR IS "VICOM31" REALLY 'FLAVA FLAV'?..I DON'T THINK ANYONE CAN EVER REMEMBER SEEING THEM IN THE SAME ROOM AT THE SAME TIME!! HMMM..I WONDER......
i dunnoooooo... since you brought it up , i'm kinda leanin' towards busta....
ayersch write: WAIT A MINUTE..HOLD THE PHONES..IS IT JUST ME, OR IS "VICOM31" REALLY 'FLAVA FLAV'?..I DON'T THINK ANYONE CAN EVER REMEMBER SEEING THEM IN THE SAME ROOM AT THE SAME TIME!! HMMM..I WONDER......
i dunnoooooo... since you brought it up , i'm kinda leanin' towards busta....
]quote[You send out a lot of feelers to receive a couple of responses.]quote[
almost like being in sales... might get a hundred 'nyets' before you get a 'da'.... then again if this was like 'glengarry glen ross' if the leads were highly qualified your 'closing ratio' might be a lot higher/hotter.... AND the quality of the messenger notwithstanding.... rome was not built in day..... but it sure burned in a night.....
]quote[You send out a lot of feelers to receive a couple of responses.]quote[
almost like being in sales... might get a hundred 'nyets' before you get a 'da'.... then again if this was like 'glengarry glen ross' if the leads were highly qualified your 'closing ratio' might be a lot higher/hotter.... AND the quality of the messenger notwithstanding.... rome was not built in day..... but it sure burned in a night.....
This is my second time on this site and I do not get a lot of e-mails or winks. It's like looking for a job. You send out a lot of feelers to receive a couple of responses.
This is my second time on this site and I do not get a lot of e-mails or winks. It's like looking for a job. You send out a lot of feelers to receive a couple of responses.
that's not necessarily the case. could be that the people don't get on often or they may not subscribe. Or maybe there's just not enough interest.. physical traits only get you so far.. I've always been of the mind the hottest person right here, right now will have to one day face the fact that if they live long enough, they will become old and unnatractive.. everyone does, except for those people who can throw money away on botox and plastic surgery.
that's not necessarily the case. could be that the people don't get on often or they may not subscribe. Or maybe there's just not enough interest.. physical traits only get you so far.. I've always been of the mind the hottest person right here, right now will have to one day face the fact that if they live long enough, they will become old and unnatractive.. everyone does, except for those people who can throw money away on botox and plastic surgery.
Nonsense.If you mean the "real men" out there who are still living on a level like the neanderthal, it may be so...
EXACTLY...!!! including cro mags..., chefs in germany, those who know prince and drive for a limo company....and serve cheap bubbly in krystal glasses...
Nonsense.If you mean the "real men" out there who are still living on a level like the neanderthal, it may be so...
EXACTLY...!!! including cro mags..., chefs in germany, those who know prince and drive for a limo company....and serve cheap bubbly in krystal glasses...
first if you don't think you look good, why should any one else???? then if they don't reply B.F.D. look dude, how many women are here anyway??? and you are crying noone wrote back?!?!?! you are on AN INTERRACIAL SITE so how you can't find a woman, i don't know (every black woman in here is yours for the picking) what the hell are you saying about you???? if you are a normal guy (i hope) then my advice is TO KEEP WRITING with all the black women here you should not have any problems, if you do then look in the mirror and fix you(also it won't hurt to just ask and see what you are told about yourself)also READ THE PROFILES before you write to them, save yourself some pain
first if you don't think you look good, why should any one else???? then if they don't reply B.F.D. look dude, how many women are here anyway??? and you are crying noone wrote back?!?!?! you are on AN INTERRACIAL SITE so how you can't find a woman, i don't know (every black woman in here is yours for the picking) what the hell are you saying about you???? if you are a normal guy (i hope) then my advice is TO KEEP WRITING with all the black women here you should not have any problems, if you do then look in the mirror and fix you(also it won't hurt to just ask and see what you are told about yourself)also READ THE PROFILES before you write to them, save yourself some pain
guitarwatson99 write: Hey, Do any of you out there feel discouraged when you type a bunch of emails and get no responses? Is this typical for guys on here or am I just that ugly?
It is difficult to answer your question without knowing what you are saying in your emails to these women.
If you are responding via email based on what you have read from a profile(which is what most guys do.), it's not surprising that you received little or no responses.
Perhaps I'll create a blog titled: The Correct Way To Contact A Woman Online.
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guitarwatson99 write: Hey, Do any of you out there feel discouraged when you type a bunch of emails and get no responses? Is this typical for guys on here or am I just that ugly?
It is difficult to answer your question without knowing what you are saying in your emails to these women.
If you are responding via email based on what you have read from a profile(which is what most guys do.), it's not surprising that you received little or no responses.
Perhaps I'll create a blog titled: The Correct Way To Contact A Woman Online.
wade2007 write: By the way, I am 40 years old and I have NEVER been said hello to, asked my name and have definitely NEVER been asked out by a woman I didnt already know.
Hello!..........What's your name?.........
.......well two outta three ain't bad
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wade2007 write: By the way, I am 40 years old and I have NEVER been said hello to, asked my name and have definitely NEVER been asked out by a woman I didnt already know.
By the way, I am 40 years old and I have NEVER been said hello to, asked my name and have definitely NEVER been asked out by a woman I didnt already know.
have faith, grasshopper.... miracles can & do happen.... even to a mammalian such as you........
By the way, I am 40 years old and I have NEVER been said hello to, asked my name and have definitely NEVER been asked out by a woman I didnt already know.
have faith, grasshopper.... miracles can & do happen.... even to a mammalian such as you........
Hey guitar! The GENERAL rule among all mammalian life forms on this Earth is that under MOST circumstances, men are the more aggressive when it comes to finding a mate. Women get all bent out of shape on this one - I say too bad! Ladies, being aggressive towards finding a date/mate does NOT mean getting your hair "did" or buying a new blouse to wear. Most women feel less feminine if they do the hunting -they generally want to be hunted. By the way, I am 40 years old and I have NEVER been said hello to, asked my name and have definitely NEVER been asked out by a woman I didnt already know.
Hey guitar! The GENERAL rule among all mammalian life forms on this Earth is that under MOST circumstances, men are the more aggressive when it comes to finding a mate. Women get all bent out of shape on this one - I say too bad! Ladies, being aggressive towards finding a date/mate does NOT mean getting your hair "did" or buying a new blouse to wear. Most women feel less feminine if they do the hunting -they generally want to be hunted. By the way, I am 40 years old and I have NEVER been said hello to, asked my name and have definitely NEVER been asked out by a woman I didnt already know.
First rule with emails,Keep them simple and to the point.Meaning start with a comment about something they mention in there bio.IF they don't have much or nothing..it could be hard to make a connection.And that person shouldn't be look at as being serious about meeting people. second don't keep going on and on about you, your life experiences,how many kids,marriages and so on.Just introduce yourself in a clear and concise manner.third you need to look at your bio..is it to much info or not enough.And keep it fun and interesting.You should work out a bio on your word doc and rewrite it a few times till it's smart,funny,a little provocative,and flirty. This will get you the most views.And check and see who has viewed you. It never hurts to come back and send a little note.I get a answer to my winks and emails about one out of 5 or 6. fourth...carry yourself. Meaning if you tell yourself you are fun and interesting and attractive..you will be. It's all in your head. But you got to be able to do a very deep and honest look at you and how you hold yourself in your own minds eye. PS this is not the same as cocky. And charm and Witt will get you a long way even if you are ugly. wink wink. I hope this helps
First rule with emails,Keep them simple and to the point.Meaning start with a comment about something they mention in there bio.IF they don't have much or nothing..it could be hard to make a connection.And that person shouldn't be look at as being serious about meeting people. second don't keep going on and on about you, your life experiences,how many kids,marriages and so on.Just introduce yourself in a clear and concise manner.third you need to look at your bio..is it to much info or not enough.And keep it fun and interesting.You should work out a bio on your word doc and rewrite it a few times till it's smart,funny,a little provocative,and flirty. This will get you the most views.And check and see who has viewed you. It never hurts to come back and send a little note.I get a answer to my winks and emails about one out of 5 or 6. fourth...carry yourself. Meaning if you tell yourself you are fun and interesting and attractive..you will be. It's all in your head. But you got to be able to do a very deep and honest look at you and how you hold yourself in your own minds eye. PS this is not the same as cocky. And charm and Witt will get you a long way even if you are ugly. wink wink. I hope this helps
